Commitment is an essential element of a healthy and stable personal relationship. When we make a commitment to another person, and then honor that commitment, trust is built that enables the relationship to grow deeper and stronger. But sometimes the commitment one person in the relationship makes is met with behavior by the other person that is controlling or even violent. When this occurs, domestic abuse may be present. In a relationship where domestic abuse exists, commitment can turn into captivity while family and friends may not have a clue. What can we do to recognize and address domestic abuse?